How to Seduce a Leo Man Through Text

Co-authored by Jessica Lanyadoo and Glenn Carreau

Last Updated: March 8, 2022

It's easy to fall for a bright and fiery Leo man. You may wonder how you can seduce him, but you'll find that winning his heart is easy if you know what he likes. Summon all of your confidence, send your Leo guy flirty and flattering texts, and he'll be yours in no time. Read on for our comprehensive guide on seducing a Leo man through text!

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Let him know you're thinking of him.

Give your Leo lots of attention to make him feel special.^{[1]
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Jessica Lanyadoo
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Expert Interview. 12 November 2019.} Send him a sweet "good morning" text or a "thinking of you" message sometime during the day. He'll see that he's been in your thoughts and be encouraged to pursue you. There's no need to get too explicit; just be earnest and a little suggestive if you're comfortable with that.
- "Hey there! I've been thinking about you today. Can't wait to talk again soon. 😘"
- "Good morning, handsome! You've been the star of my dreams lately."
- "How're you doing today? You've been on my mind constantly."
- "This song reminds me of you. It's one of my favorites! 😉"

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Shower him with compliments.

Compliments appeal to his lion-sized ego, making them a huge turn-on. Be as obvious as you want; a Leo man doesn't need you to be subtle when giving flattery.^{[2]
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Expert Interview. 12 November 2019.} Regardless of whether you compliment his looks, values, personality, or anything else about him, he'll be captivated by it.^{[3]
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- "You looked gorgeous last night. I couldn't take my eyes off of you!"
- "Thanks for picking the restaurant on our last date. Everything was delicious—you have amazing taste!"
- "I love talking with you. You're so passionate about everything that you do! It's inspiring."

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Make him laugh with witty remarks.

Playful Leos love to exchange teasing banter. Though he may seem serious on the surface, a Leo man prefers amusing and lighthearted conversation. You can win his heart by texting him little jokes or humorous observations during the day. Light sarcasm is also fun for a Leo—but he won't enjoy jokes that feel mean-spirited or critical. Feel free to tease him and get a little flirty, too; he'll eagerly tease you right back!
- "Breaking news! My dog misses you, so you should come to visit him. This DEFINITELY isn't about how I feel at all. 😉"
- "I may have just binged a whole show, but you're still hotter than the bottom of my laptop! 😜"
- "I have a very serious question that will have huge consequences depending on your answer. Pineapple on pizza: yes or no?"

4

Initiate deep, intelligent conversations.

Leos have bright minds and need intellectual stimulation from partners. Send him thoughtful texts about various topics, from favorite films to topical news stories, and articulate your responses. A mental connection is just as attractive to your Leo man as an emotional one, so he'll find your communication skills especially alluring.
- "Check out this story in the local news! I'm curious to hear what you think."
- "Have you listened to this podcast yet? It'd be right up your alley, and I want to talk about it on our next date! 😉"
- "We have so much in common! I think we should re-watch our favorite movies together soon."

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Support him.

He's ambitious and wants a partner who inspires him to chase his dreams. Build your emotional bond with him by talking about his passions and cheering him on as he takes on challenges—both professionally and elsewhere in his life. Be affectionate, and act as a confidante if he needs one. Compassion and care are both important to a Leo man.^{[4]
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- "Good luck on your interview today! You're brilliant, and you've totally got this."
- "You did amazing today, babe! And I'm thinking the next time we're alone, you deserve a reward. 😘"

6

Tease him with suggestive comments.

Drop hints that you want to be closer to him and gauge his interest. If a Leo man wants to be with you, he'll quickly pick up on texts that have a suggestive double meaning. Look to see if his reply is equally risqué—and if it is, that means he shares your enthusiasm.
- "I'm hungry. 😋 Let's try something new in the kitchen tonight."
- "I have a book here that I think you'd really like. You should come over and pick it up. 😉"

7

Let him chase you.

Leos are bold and like to take charge. Encourage his Leo nature by letting him chase you a little; flirt with him and be available, but make him work to spend time with you. Emphasize that you have a social life outside of him but would love to include him in it. Instead of asking him out yourself, show him that you're interested and then hold back until he does the asking.
- "Hey! Stop thinking about me so much!"
- "I'm free this weekend. For now. Just in case you were wondering! 💋"
- "I made the first move with texting, so I fully expect you to make the first move when it comes to…other things. 😘"
- "I've got some things to do this weekend, but I'd rather spend time with you. Don't keep me waiting long, handsome! 😉"

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Flirt with him enthusiastically.

As a natural flirt, Leo likes a partner who's not afraid to turn up the heat. Once he shows interest in you, flirt freely and shamelessly. Your Leo man isn't going to beat around the bush when it comes to romance, so you don't need to either. Send lots of flirty messages and add emojis to emphasize your meaning.
- "Miss me yet? 💋"
- "You're going to love the outfit I wear to dinner tonight. 😘"
- "Why can't I stop thinking about you?!"
- "I can't wait to be alone with you again. 😳"

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Send him seductive selfies.

Leos want to look their best and love partners who can do the same. Text him a selfie when you're having a great hair day or wearing a stylish shirt that makes you feel great about yourself. You can also send him a more revealing photo if you're comfortable with it; your Leo will also appreciate steamy underwear or lingerie pics. Flaunt your good looks and show off your sense of style!
- "Check out my new outfit! Shall I wear it for a date night soon?"
- "Just got a new haircut! I'm dying to know what you think. 😉"
- "I thought about getting all dressed up to take this pic, but then I remembered that less is more. 😜"

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Be straightforward about your interest.

Tell your Leo man that you like him to make him want you even more. Be honest about your feelings for him, especially if he asks how you feel.^{[5]
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Expert Interview. 12 November 2019.} Honesty and directness are two essential qualities for Leo men—while other signs might enjoy playing games, he'll only be enthusiastic about pursuing you if he knows you want him to.^{[6]
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- "Hey, so, I like you a lot. What are you going to do about it?"
- "Just so you know, I smile every time your name pops up on my phone. 😍"
- "I want you. Like, right now. What are you doing tonight?"
- Don't ignore a Leo or play hard to get—that's a fool's errand.^{[7]
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Be confident.

Confident Leo is attracted to people who match his boldness. While he prefers to lead in relationships, you can still come on strong. Show him that you know what a catch you are, and it'll make him chase you more. He'll love it when you match his energy and enthusiasm, so be bold when you text him.^{[8]
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- "I've gotta know: what are you thinking about right now, and why is it me?"
- "I see me in your future. 🔮"
- "Thanks for taking things slow. I'm worth the wait, I promise. 😘"

Expert Q&A

Question

What makes Leo happy?

Jessica Lanyadoo
Astrologer & Psychic Medium
Jessica Lanyadoo is an astrologer with over 20 years of consulting experience. She is the author of Astrology for Real Relationships: Understanding You, Me, and How We All Get Along and is the host of the popular astrology and advice show, Ghost of a Podcast. Lanyadoo co-hosted TLC’s digital astrology show Stargazing and writes weekly and monthly horoscopes that help you heal.

Jessica Lanyadoo

Astrologer & Psychic Medium

Expert Answer

Leos love to be engaged really actively. They want attention, they want to be treated like they're something exciting, and they want to be in the center of everything.