Margie Abbott

Margaret Veronica Aitken was born in Hutt Hospital,[5] Lower Hutt, New Zealand to Max and Gail Aitken, and grew up in Wainuiomata. Both parents worked for the Post Office, Max as deputy chief postmaster of Wellington, and Gail as a typist.[6] She has a brother, Greg, a former private investigator.[6] The family has always been very sport-oriented; Max Aitken is a senior soccer administrator, and Abbott played soccer and netball for a number of years.[6] She is a Catholic, like her husband.[7]

Her father is a member of the New Zealand Labour Party and her mother is a Labour voter.[6] There were pictures of Labour leaders in the kitchen of the family home.[8] Abbott was also briefly a member of the Labour Party.[9][10]

Abbott attended Fernlea School and Wainuiomata College,[5] where among other studies she took part in a pioneering Māori-language course.[6][10] At the age of 16, she entered the Wellington Teachers' College, and after graduation taught primary school in Upper Hutt and Wainuiomata. She taught Māori both there and later in Australia.[9]

After leaving teaching, she worked at a recruitment firm, and in 1983[10] followed her boss to Sydney, Australia. She then moved to the marketing department of a merchant bank in Sydney.[11] She eventually opened a not-for-profit child care centre in St Ives, Sydney,[12] which employs 10 staff and cares for children from around 100 families.[9][10] She continued as a director of the centre after her husband became prime minister.[13]

She met Tony Abbott at a Sydney pub in 1988; he was then a journalist with The Bulletin and they married on 24 September 1988, and have three daughters (Louise, Frances, and Bridget),[14] and became grandparents in 2021.[15]

Abbott kept a relatively low profile during her husband's tenure as prime minister, giving only a handful of interviews. She continued living in Sydney – neither she nor her husband lived at The Lodge, the usual prime minister's residence in Canberra, as it was undergoing renovations.[16]

In September 2013, Abbott attracted media attention when she made comments apparently supportive of same-sex marriage; her husband was one of its most prominent opponents. She told the media "I suppose at the end of the day I think that love, commitment, are things that should be recognised and I think it's a conversation that Australia needs to have".[17]

In May 2014, Tim Mathieson, the partner of former prime minister Julia Gillard, gave an interview in which he said he was "disappointed that Margie Abbott is not doing any charity work [...] she has not contributed to any of them". In response, the Prime Minister's Office issued a list of the charities with which she was involved.[18]