Investment model of commitment

Intrinsic investments are commonly referred to as things that are put directly into the relationship that we are in. Some tangible examples of this can include spending money on a partner, or giving up possessions for a partner. Meanwhile, intangible examples would include putting in effort to the relationship, or spending quality time. Essentially, intrinsic investments are things that one person has that they use in or on the relationship, usually to make the relationship work.[12]

Extrinsic investments are things that now exist or have been created because of the relationship. Some tangible examples of this could be the ownership of a house with a partner, or even having children. On the other hand, an intangible example of extrinsic investments would be memories with a partner. Extrinsic investments then are things that have been built up because of the relationship, which would be difficult to lose.[12]

Accommodation is the first of these five mechanisms for relationship maintenance, and it references the willingness of an individual within a relationship to not immediately react negatively when their partner does something that they don't like, and rather react in a way that can make progress within the relationship. When faced with situations that they don't like, people in relationships can react in a multitude of ways. They can immediately fire back with an angry response to let their partner know they have done something wrong, which may actually insult their partner further. However, they could also react to issues within a relationship in a progressive way, that accommodates some issues the relationship is having, and chooses to work on those issues instead of reacting to them, which can promote the relationship.[14]

Willingness to sacrifice is a factor within a relationship that determines how much one partner is willing to give up their interests for the sake of the relationship or for their partner. This sacrifice could be passive or active. Passive sacrifice is when a partner stops doing something, or gives something up, within a relationship. Meanwhile, active sacrifice occurs when a partner starts doing a behavior that they may not want to do, or is not desirable. Many things can affect a partner's willingness to sacrifice, but the primary cause of this behavior is to help maintain a relationship, a direct result of how committed one is to their relationship.[15]

Forgiveness is when a partner does something wrong in the relationship, and the other partner decides to not hold a grudge against the partner for that. This can help maintain relationships in many ways. First of all, if a partner does something wrong, leading to lower satisfaction levels, then by forgiving the partner, satisfaction levels could increase, and raise commitment to the partner back up. On top of that, forgiveness has also been found to bolster trust in a relationship, which can predict other factors such as relationship satisfaction and commitment.[16]

This method of relationship maintenance typically involves idealizing particular positive traits of one's partner, and minimizing potential negative traits. In this way, partners can think about their partners in a way that is very good, but often objectively better or more idealized that their partners is actually acting. Performing these acts have been linked with higher satisfaction, and trust, which both contribute to commitment towards a relationship, and thus, increase relationship stability and maintenance.[17]

This is a method of relationship maintenance in which partners view any potential alternative partners in a way that makes them seem like worse partners. This can involve thinking less of their positive traits, or attributing negative traits as a larger portion of their personality. Both of these activities are involved in the ridicule of alternatives, and can help maintain ongoing relationships.[12]

One study, performed by Impett, Beals, and Peplau in 2002, had goals of proving that satisfaction, alternatives, and investments could predict the commitment of married couples, as well as proving that commitment then determined relationship outcomes. In order to test this theory, a longitudinal study was performed in which married participants were mailed a questionnaire to fill out asking various questions about the relationship, regarding satisfaction, investments, and quality of alternatives. Of the couples who participated, 34% were asked to take the questionnaire again 18 months later.[18]

After analysis of the data, it was found that levels of satisfaction, quality of alternatives, and investments all fit with Rusbult's predicted model. All of these factors were crucial to building commitment within a relationship. Further, when testing for commitment, it was found that commitment was a strong predictive factor to determine relationship success, over this 18-month period.[19]

Another study, performed by Rhahgan and Axsom in 2006, attempted to understand if the investment model would be successful in predicting the commitment shown by women in abusive relationships. The reasoning for the study was that since the satisfaction of an abusive relationship would likely be low, and the quality of alternatives would likely be higher, then investment must be the reason why these people remain in relationships. The participants included were recruited from a battered women's shelter, and were asked to complete a questionnaire regarding relationships they had in the past. Other questions included in the survey asked about various factors of the investment model.[20]

The study's results displayed that satisfaction tended to be low in these relationships, and that quality of alternatives was usually higher than other, nonabusive relationships. However, many women reported feeling as though they would lose something important, in the form of investments, if they were to leave the relationship. This study showed that all the factors contribute to commitment, and then, that commitment is the deciding factor of relationship success, once again showing strengths of the investment model.[21]

A third study by Le and Agnew in 2003 performed a meta-analysis of many different studies to view whether many different studies that had already occurred could agree on the effectiveness or lack there-of the investment model. Using 52 studies and over 11,000 participants, they found that 2/3 of variance in partners' commitment to relationships could be explained by satisfaction, alternatives, and investment. Moreover, the study found that commitment was the primary predictive measure that could determine long-term relationship success.[22]

This same study also displayed that the investment model continues to describe relationships across cultures and around the world. In both individualistic, as well as collectivist cultures, the investment model is able to predict relationship success using the same factors. Given that many aspects of relationships can be different cross culturally, it shows the predictive power and efficacy of the investment model in predicting human relationships.[19]

However, there have also been studies which disagree with the investment model's method of prediction. One study, performed by Susan Sprecher, used 197 married couples from Madison, Wisconsin. All of the couples were asked to fill out a questionnaire, with questions about commitment, satisfaction, quality of alternatives, and investments. After answering all of the questions, the results were put together, and it was found that satisfaction and quality of alternatives are much more important for determining total commitment levels than investment size. This disagrees partially with Rusbult's initial model, and supports an interdependence theory way of predicting relationship outcomes, by disregarding the investments.[21]