A Place for Us

Fatima Farheen Mirza was born in California, US in 1991. Both of her parents are of Indian descent. She graduated from the Iowa Writers’ Workshop, where she was a recipient of the Michener-Copernicus Fellowship.[6] She is married to the British actor Riz Ahmed.

Fatima Farheen Mirza in March 2019.

The book is split up into four parts.

Part one opens at the eldest daughter, Hadia’s wedding in Northern California. Rather than accepting an arranged marriage, Hadia decides to build her life with a man of her choice, Tariq, whom she met in medical school. Hadia decides to invite their estranged brother, Amar, who returns after 3 years of no communication with his family. He is confronted with the familiarity of the faces from his past life when greeting the guests, including his first love Amira Ali. His family watches him from a distance, careful not to say anything to upset him. Their mother, Layla, is frantically running around, attending to guests, and making sure that her daughter’s event flows smoothly. She searches for her husband, Rafiq, in the crowd to look at him and share a moment to appreciate where they came to in life.

Part two of the book gives readers glimpses of the past that offer insight into how everything led up to the wedding. It opens with a memory of the Fourth of July, the first one Hadia recalls celebrating. The three young siblings begged their father to take them to see the fireworks. Hadia and her sister Huda sit together cross-legged, eyes lighting up in awe from the fireworks. A young Amar. meanwhile, is leaning against his mother, eyes wide in wonder.

The scene jumps to a young Layla in India, talking to her younger sister Sara about a potential proposal from a man named Rafiq in America. She wonders about the houses and the roads there and if she will follow Rafiq to America.

As young kids, Hadia worries about Amar, who lies to protect her and Huda, further upsetting their father. She thinks about what her understanding of jealousy is by listening to her mother’s comments about other women. She also thinks about how she feels about other girls talking about Abbas Ali, her childhood crush.

Rafiq comes home one night with the news that Abbas has died in a car accident. Both Hadia and Amar join Rafiq in the car to stop by the Ali house to grieve with the family. Amar stops by Amira’s (Abbas's younger sister) room, both of them finding the slightest comfort in each other’s presence.

Layla travels back home to Hyderabad, India without the rest of her family. She seeks comfort in her prayers and love for God. Amar gets into a fight at school when three boys corner him in the locker rooms and tell him to go back to his country. They tell him that Rafiq looks like a terrorist, and Amar throws the first punch at one of the boys. When Rafiq is called by the school nurse to come get him, Amar wished his mother was there to get him instead.  

During a wedding of someone from their community, Amira and Amar meet to go on a private walk on the seventieth floor. Amar recalls a guy named Simon, who survived the car accident that Abbas was in. He follows him to party and drinks beer for the first time. He debates telling Amira but does not want to impact the way she thinks of him.

Months before Hadia’s graduation, she takes her younger siblings to an ice cream shop. Amar confides in his sisters; he tells them that he feels as if he no longer belongs at school due to being a Muslim. At the masjid, he struggles to listen in on religious lectures. He recalls the time him and Abbas discussed religious stories and how they would someday leave and create a life for themselves.

Layla finds a box in Amar’s room containing a photo of Amira, she panics and thinks that Amira will be a distraction for Amar. This results in her going to the Ali house to talk to Amira’s mom to expose their children’s relationship. Amira’s parents force her to end things with Amar, due to his bad reputation.

At a family dinner, the last one before Hadia leaves for medical school, Hadia asks anyone if they have seen her watch, which results in Rafiq accusing Amar. Amar goes silent and feels as if he is watching his life from someone else’s perspective. He worries that his heart is too stained by sins and that he cannot recover. He confides in pills to deal with the loss of Abbas, Amira and what he thinks is the loss of love of his parents.

Part three opens back up at Hadia’s wedding. The parents notice Amira and Amar talking. Amar is surprised that Amira asked to speak to him in private. He actively puts in effort to pretend as if he no longer loves her. He knows that even if he finds another woman, he will always care for Amira. He shows her the scars from his needles and asks her not to tell anyone. Amar confides in her and tells her that he struggled after they broke up. Amira tells him that it was his mother who came to her house to tell her mother about their relationship. Amar begins to spiral and starts drinking at a nearby bar. He sits outside the venue trying to recover so he can go back for his sister. Rafiq is sent out by Layla to find Amar for the family photo. Amar realises that he is exhausted at being angry and cries into his father’s arms.

Part four is from Rafiq's perspective, he is speaking to Amar as if he was there with beside him. When Rafiq is older he is being admitted into the hospital where Hadia is working. This is the first time he is able to witness her working. Hadia is now a respected doctor and a mother of two children. Rafiq talks to Amar about his grandchildren, Abbas and Tahira, that he is much more calmer and loving now. He finds himself throwing out Amar’s old exams, only to take it back out of the trash and place it in his desk drawer. Rafiq recalls on his mistakes and where he went wrong with Amar, admitting that he believed it was his fault that Amar left.

A Place for Us made its way onto the New York Times Best Seller List for books.[7] The book was featured as one of the best books of 2018 by NPR,[8] Refinery29,[9] and The Washington Post.[10]